Tuesday, October 29, 2019

Knitting and Toddlers

I know some of you will understand from first hand experience. Other people will empathize. 

Currently I am packing up my house to move. Circumstances dictate this move. However,  my husband has packed all (or what he thought was all) of my yarn. From the various rooms and closets comes more.  

Our home also houses our son and his daughter.  The packing and boxes make for a very unsettled toddler. We adults understand that and try to accommodate her. 

Thus when we found a cake or bernat blanket stripes with knitting and needles that you as escaped being boxed up, I just let it be. It has a beginning of a blanket for said granddaughter. She likes to touch and play with everything she sees,  like all little ones. I was not afraid of her handling it.  I did have some concerns when she tasted the wood needles. She doesn't need splinters. 

This yarn doesn't run. It needs a lot of encouragement. The needle removal happened two days ago. I have not had time to put them back in the blanket. When I tried to get the needles she didn't want to give them up. The more I asked the more she wavered between the evil little look that says I know exactly what I'm doing and the cranky child crying no because Mimi is supposed to be knitting and the boxes that are everywhere are more than she can handle. 

I have a feeling it will get boxed up with more yarn found in one of the bedrooms. As for our little granddaughter, stories and songs and her "babies" will suffice until the move is complete and I can finish this project. 

She will learn she is loved no matter where we are.  

Tuesday, October 1, 2019

October is National Domestic Violence Month

Domestic violence affects more people than we know. It affects women and children primarily.   We can't overlook the men either.  Domestic Violence knows no boundaries.  It crosses all social norms, economic layers, genders.  

The violence takes four basic forms, physical,  mental/emotional,  sexual  and neglect.   It serves to strip a person of their dignity and self respect.  It causes physical wounds large and small. It causes mental and emotional wounds that persist as long as the person is alive.

A way to help the victims is to give them the courage and capability to make choices. Offer your services to the local domestic violence service. What do you do well? It's possible that for security and privacy the offer will be refused.  Don't take it personally.  See what needs you can fill. Most people who land in the DVI do so without basic necessities due to having to leave in a hurry.  Clothes to suit the season can be met by knitting and crocheting or purchasing things.  Use current fashionable colors or neutrals that can work with a wide range of color choices.   Clothes to fit a variety of jobs are very useful and welcome. Perhaps cleaning out some of your gently used items can help.

One of the things I like to offer is a fashionable accessory.  I offer a variety of warm hat, scarf, and mitten or glove sets.  I also like to offer a scarf that can be used to dress up some basic clothes for those in professional jobs.

Here is a hat idea that can fit a child or adult.

CO 60 using a double strand of worsted weight or a strand of bulky weight (5) yarn on a size 10 1/2US 16 inch circular needle.  PM before joining to work in the round.

Rd 1:  * K 2nd st on left needle, do not remove, k 1st st on left needle, remove both.  P2.  Rep from * to marker.
Rd 2:  * k2, p2.  Rep from around. 

Rep Rd 1 & 2 until there are 7 inches.

  *k2, p2tog.  Rep from * around.  K2, p1 for 2 rds. * k2tog, p1.  rep from * around.  K1, p1 for 2 rds.  k2tog around.  Divide remaining stitches in thirds and work each section in 5 inches of Icord.  Braid or leave separated. 

A fashionable scarf/cowl can be a fine accessory to cover a neckline that might be a little too low or to add warmth or hide bruising from prying eyes that don't need to know the intimate details of a person's life.

I like the South bay shawlette from Lion Brand yarn.  

https://m.lionbrand.com/item/313137313331

I also like this simple one. It can use any weight yarn and the hook you usually use or a size bigger.